Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 12 years and I have cheated on my husband for the past 5 years. My husband is a bit older than I am, and he can’t always satisfy me like he used to, so I got addicted to stepping out on him. The thrill of the affair is what excited me at first, but then when I realized my husband no longer cared, it became a part of my lifestyle............................................