Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your advice on how to move past being hurt by my husband. My husband cheated on me several years ago and although I love him deeply, I haven’t been able to move past the cheating. The most hurtful part is that he waited till after our 20th wedding anniversary to start having an affair and it lasted a very long time. I was not blind to the fact that he could’ve been cheating, but I always thought he wasn’t the type to do that.................