Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old, Republican black man and I can’t find a woman to call my own. I have dated all kinds of women but I can’t get a woman to stay with me after we have sex for the first time. I’ve had sex with black women and they told me that I am disturbed and I need help. I’ve had sex with white and Mexican women and they said they’re very uncomfortable during sex. They all complain and say I’m a sicko because I enjoy being treated like a slave in bed..........