Hello Steve and Shirley, I married the man of my dreams, or so I thought. I insisted on waiting till marriage before having sex. My husband would give me the world if he could and I do love him, but every time we have sex, the only one getting any fulfillment is him. At first, he said it was because he didn't last long enough so he went to his doctor and the doctor gave him a shot. Well, that shot didn’t do anything and my husband said he wasn't going thru that pain again................