Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 54 year old married man and I have been married for 36 years. My wife and I have 12 kids, so my wife has never worked a day in her life, besides raising our family. I’ve always done my best to keep us on track financially, working two or three jobs at times. I have always been the best dad I could be and I make sure my family is well taken care of. My only problem is that my wife does not do her part by making sure I’m well taken care of.............