Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 27 year old woman and I’ve had a few relationship issues because I just can't seem to pick the right man. Maybe it’s because I am in love with my male best friend. He is perfect for me and I’ve known it since we met six years ago. But there’s one problem… He’s had a girlfriend for the last three years. His girlfriend has no idea that she is in my way and she has tolerated our friendship, to an extent. Sometimes she will say little things to make him pull away from me, but that does not last long. She has every reason to fear me, because I want more than a friendship with her man............