Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 39 year old black man, married to a beautiful black woman and we have a 10 year old son. We have been married for 11 years and over the years, I’ve fallen short of being a great husband. I struggled to stay faithful and I slipped a few times and started sexting and having phone sex with women I met online. It’s not my wife’s fault that I did what I did, but she has changed since we got married...................