Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 28 year old single woman and I’m involved with a man that is 31 years older than I am. He told me he was separated from his wife when we met, but that was a lie, so I set guidelines for how we conducted our affair discreetly. He is handsome and loaded, so anything I wanted or needed, he had cash. I told him I wanted a house so we’d have more privacy and he helped me buy one. I pay the mortgage from our joint account he set up...............