Dear Steve and Shirley, I need help! When I was a teenager, my parents went through a horrible divorce and my mom moved to a new city to start over. I love my both my parents equally, but I chose to stay with my dad so I would not miss my senior year of high school with my friends. My dad has always been a pastor and now I am the minister of music at our church. A few years after the divorce, my dad got remarried to a beautiful woman that is a bit younger than him. We got along great and spent holidays and special occasions together as a family. Well, about a year ago, my father was away on a ministry mission and my stepmom invited me over for dinner........