Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 52 year old widower. I lost my wife 4 years ago and I’ve recently started dating again. I live in a great neighborhood and my neighbors have been very supportive while I’m adjusting to being single. I’m really cool with one of my college buddies that lives around the corner from me. He has grown kids and he and his wife own a gas station. They are essential workers so they aren’t home a lot.................