Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old male who is currently dating a female that lives 200 miles from me. We make an effort to meet 3 times a month, mostly on weekends. I do love her, but I have a big problem that will interfere with the progression of our relationship. You see, I deal with multiple girls on the side during the weekdays. The girls come to my place and we keep it strictly sexual and nothing more. The girls are not the problem, they all know that I have a girlfriend and they are okay with it.............