Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for 9 wonderful years and we’ve never had any major issues in our marriage. He's great with the kids, he’s a great provider and he’s a hardworking man. The only touchy subject seems to be our sex life or lack thereof. He’s 8 years older…. He’s 48 and I'm 40. He’s been taking medicine that prevents him from becoming aroused and it’s a big problem for me...........