Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in desperate need of advice. I am a 30 year old female and I am still a virgin. I grew up in the church and I was taught to wait until marriage before sharing that part of myself. I believe that if I did the Lord would send me a husband, but now here I am 30 years old still single and wondering if I am just being naive. All of my friends who started having sex in their teenage years are all married....