Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I have been together for a while but we don't live in the same city so we do everything we can to keep the spice in our relationships. We send flirty texts and explicit pictures and when we are together it is on and poppin. The texts and pictures we send are so raunchy risque and vulgar that a porn star would blush. We can't help it. Well now we have a big problem. My man has a 15 year old daughter and I have always had a great relationship with her until recently when she went through her father's phone and saw it all......