Dear Steve and Shirley, I have dealt with an older guy off and on for about 7 years and he meets all of my physical needs and we enjoy spending time together. He is 60 years old and he’s never been married and he does not have any children. He told me that I’m the only woman he’s ever been with for this long, because he hates it when women get clingy. I think he is my soulmate, but I’m worried about what goes on in his mind.................