Dear Steve and Shirley. I have a problem. I met a guy and I consider him a good friend and I want to get to know him better. He has taken me on a few dates and all went well at first. The problem arose after one of our recent dates after a really good date. We decided we'd pick up some food and go back to his house to chill and eat our food. Well when we got to his house with our food and he turned the lights on. Boom bam boom roaches went flying from east to west. They were so bad they were even crawling on his dog. But told him politely that I was not eating my food.........