Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very handsome man a year ago. In the beginning, things seemed perfect. He has a great job and his own house in a very nice neighborhood. He’s a great father to his children and he and his ex-wife are good friends. He says he would love to have more children so that was big for me, because I want kids someday. I wanted us to take things slowly and get to know each other before we had sex, so our connection would be stronger...........