Dear Steve and Shirley, I can hardly believe what I’m about to tell you and I need some advice. I have been with my girl for almost 3 years and I proposed to her. Her family lives out of state so I have not interacted with them much, but her mom comes to visit often and we get along very well. Her father is deceased and she is an only child. Since we’re getting married, we’ve been talking more about family dynamics and how we were raised.................