Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 38 year old female and I've been married for three years. My husband and I met 28 years ago in middle school. I love him with all of my heart and I always have. My only problem is that I'm lusting over our landlord. Whenever I think about the landlord, my body just reacts no matter where I am when I am in his presence it's just like we fit together. When I am with my husband I am often thinking about the landlord..........