Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to one of the finest men in my whole town. We’ve been together 24 years and married for 18. He was my high school sweetheart and we married young and had 2 children early. We started having sex when we were 16 so he was the only man I’d been with, until recently. He has cheated on me and I forgave him because I had checked out of our marriage and was going through a little depression....................