Dear Steve and Shirley, I hope my husband is listening today because I have a problem with him and he thinks it’s no big deal. My problem is that my husband is obsessed with an ex-girlfriend that he dated 35 years ago. She was very beautiful and popular when she was in high school and he was the star football player. When he went off to college, she married a wealthy older guy that owned several businesses in town. Then she moved to Texas and my husband lost contact with her.....................