Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 14 years and I have to keep reminding my husband who’s the boss. When we met, he was unemployed and I hired him as a delivery driver. I managed a pizza place at the time and after we started dating, I had to let him go because he was always late for work. Presently, I’m a regional manager for a fast-food chain and he’s a waiter at a neighborhood restaurant...................................