Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in a three-way love affair with a man that is my pastor and my marriage counselor. I went to my pastor a year ago to get spiritual guidance so I could stay on the straight and narrow in my marriage. I was thinking about cheating and had one foot out the door. My pastor is married so I meet with his wife on Wednesdays for spiritual guidance and I meet with them both once a week to overcome the boredom in my marriage..............................................