Dear Steve and Shirley, I would never write into your show but I’m in need of help. I’m a 32 year old single man and I have a female best friend. We had been in a plutonic relationship for 8 years and we messed all of that up after we started living together. It got too convenient and although she’s a little overweight, she’s still a very sexy woman and she knows how to please me. It’s been a friends with benefits type of situation for the past year and some nights I sleep in her bed all night..................................