Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 28 years old and I live with my fiancé that’s 32 years old. We have one child together and he will be the stepfather to my son from a previous relationship. I love this man with every bit of my heart and soul. He is an amazing father and an amazing man, but here's the problem. We've had issues where exes have texted his phone and I found out about it and I brought it to his attention. He still has them as Facebook friends as well..................