Dear Steve and Shirley, I thought I was married to the woman of my dreams. She’s 42 and I’m 38 and it didn’t matter that she was older than me or taller than me by a few inches. She’s 6’1’ and I’m 5’10”. My mother has never liked her and she said I need to watch myself around her… she also calls her my bodyguard cause she’s so big. We dated for two years before we got married and I vowed to be her protector because her ex-husband was abusive.......................