I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I love him so much. I'm 25 and he is 30. He has promised me that one day we will get married, but there are just a few problems that I need to handle first. About a year ago, he lost his job and he took it pretty hard. The first month he wouldn't shower or brush his teeth. I told him that if he didn't shower, I would bust the windows in his car!