Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 35 year old woman and I'm at a loss for words when it comes to my new boyfriend's four year old son. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months and he felt it was time for me to meet his 4 year old son. He’s told me that I am the first woman he’s been serious about in years and he can see me as his wife someday. So, I met his four year old son and he’s a bit weird. He looked me up and down and said hello, then he stared at my breasts for a long time............