Dear Steve and Shirley, the problems with my boyfriend all began when he started a new job. We had been together 2 years and we were doing just fine and then he started guarding his phone like a hawk and turning it over when he put it down. My intuition kicked in and I checked it one day when he fell asleep. One of his female co-workers sent him pictures of her vacation, personal selfies and body painting pics where she’s completely naked..................