Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been knowing this female for over 20 years and into our early thirties, we went to the club on weekends and messed with a lot of high-profile men. I got older and wiser so I left the fast life and now I am in a great relationship with a nerdy man that I love dearly. I dated hustlers and craved the fast money back in the day and so did my girlfriends. One of my girlfriends in particular saw that I was in a steady relationship and she decided she wanted a nerdy guy too.....................