Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a dilemma and I need your advice. I’m in my late 20s and I work for a non-profit organization and my boss is a fine older gentleman. From the beginning, I could tell he was attracted to me and I would catch him looking at me. One Saturday about three months ago, he called and invited me over to watch a pre-season game with him and some friends. I already had plans, so I told him I would come by later. When I got to his house, he was the only one there........