Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I need your help. We want Nephew Tommy’s opinion too. We met in college and we’ve been married for 12 years, so sex can get rather boring over the years, even though we work hard to keep it interesting. My hubby completely fulfils my needs and he says that I’m all he needs. But lately, we have been joking about having a ménage a trois with another woman. I know, I know, married couples should never invite someone else into their bedroom, but we think it would help us more than hurt us.........