Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 42 year old married woman and I’ve been married for 4 years. I have 2 children from my first marriage and he came with 4 children from his first marriage. A month ago, we celebrated our fourth wedding anniversary and I found out that he’s had a girlfriend for as long as we’ve been married. She called him early on the morning of our anniversary and I answered since he was putting out the trash.............