Dear Steve And Shirley, I am a beautiful black 29 year old woman and I’m in love with a deadbeat dude but I don’t know how to get him out of my system. He’s 36 years old and we currently live with his parents. When I met him, I was the side piece for a year. I got pregnant and had nowhere to live, so he let me live in his car. His parents found out about me and they let me stay with them. Now he's divorced and our relationship is complicated. I found him at a bar with a female recently and I poured his beer on him..................