Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 25 year old woman. I married my husband when I was 19 years old and I am starting to believe that it was a mistake. We both work. His days off are consistent but my days fluctuate. When I'm off. I clean and cook I take care of our two children and I make sure everyone has what they need, but lately I've been the one who needs to be checked on to make sure I'm good......