Hello Shirley and Steve, I am a 20 year old black woman who comes from a very loving and caring family that carries themselves in a very classy and respectful way. I’ve been taught since I was a little girl that men will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. I am coming to you all because I need help. I can’t find a man that wants to be in serious relationship with me and I know about 90 percent of the blame can be put on me................