Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 30 years old and in the past 2 years, I’ve had 4 relationships that didn’t last over a few weeks. When I meet these guys, everything is great for a while and then it goes south because they can’t be monogamous. The last guy I dated is a nerd so I figured he would be more settled. He’s 34 with no children and he’s never been married. I found out last week that he loves the strip club......................................