Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 36 year old man, married to the love of my life, with four children. Around 8 years ago I left home, moved about four hours away and that’s when I met my wife and we started a family. We were from neighboring cities and knew a few of the same people, so that’s how we clicked. She grew up in a close-knit family with lots of cousins so there’s no way I could ever meet her entire family in one visit...........