Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old female and I’ve been dating a 40 year old guy for a year. I am madly in love with him and I believe he’s my soulmate, but I am afraid my past won’t let us last. You see, right before I met my man, I was seeing another guy and we had sex one time. It only happened one time and he stopped calling me after that. Two months later, I met my current boyfriend and we hit it off immediately. We had great conversation and great sexual chemistry and a lot of other stuff in common, despite the age difference.........