Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to a man that is always about to explode about something. He’s easily irritated and likes to gripe about things instead of finding solutions to his issues. I will admit that most of the time, he’s right and others are wrong, but the way he handles things drives me cray cray. He’s been on the same job for 14 years and he gets great bonuses because he doesn’t make a lot of money...........................