Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 44 year old married woman and my husband is incarcerated so I’m raising our two sons alone. I get a little help from my husband’s family, but they always complain so I hate asking them for anything. When my husband went in, his job paid out his severance package and that held us over for a year. I got a job but it was hard keeping up with the kids and a job, so my husband’s boss offered me another solution..................