Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 57 year old married woman and my husband is 59 and we’ve been married for 7 years. We have both been married before and we both got divorced because we were cheating with each other. What my new husband doesn’t know is that I was cheating with him and one other man. I have a longtime boyfriend that is in prison and I have been going to see him once a month for a very long time and we have conjugal visits...............................