My dear friend has been married for over 20 years. I have been married and I’m divorced. She was a great supporter throughout my whole mess. When I started dating again, she made sure she knew who I was going out with and where I was going, just so I was safe on my dates. She was a really good friend. Now that I've been in an exclusive relationship for the past 5 years, she has started telling me that I can do better.