Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 37 year old married man with the most perfect wife a man could ever ask for. She accepted me with all my flaws and we never argue. Instead, she calls me out on my BS and we talk things through logically. I have a female friend that is single and bitter and whenever I brag about my great marriage, she always throws shade. She always says that my wife is hiding something because women love to argue..............