Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 23 years old and I just got married. I am a little worried that I got married too soon because I realized I can’t do all the things I had planned to do with my life right now. We moved to Illinois after we got married, but I want to finish college in North Carolina this fall. I’m sure now that we can't afford for me to go back and finish school and keep up with our rent and bills. My best friend and I planned to get our bachelor degrees and then go to grad school and we were going to live like the girls on “Living Single” for a few years......