Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 57 year old very attractive widow. I started back dating four years ago, after giving myself time to deal with the loss of my husband. Over a year ago, I met a really nice man at a bar and he told me I was gorgeous and he’d love to take me to dinner. We went on our first date and I was hooked! He told me he was looking for a deep sexual connection and whoever he was with, he would treat her like a queen.............