Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship for a little over a year with a wonderful man that I met online. We’re both in our forties and never been married. He is on the shy side and hasn’t dated a lot. When we met, I could tell that he was a lot more laid back than me and he did not have much experience with women, so I was patient with him and he started opening up more. I was also patient with him in the bedroom, after I noticed he was not as experienced as I am..............