Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced female and I am crushed and lonely without a man in my life. That’s why I’m writing you and that’s my only problem. I am one of those women that doesn’t like to be without a man and someone to lean on when I feel down or when I’m going through things. I was in a tumultuous marriage for about 10 years and I’ve been single for 3 years now. Even though my marriage was crazy, I wanted to work things out so I would not end up alone................