Dear Steve and Shirley, I have found the man of my dreams and we have been together for 5 years. We have one child together and I’m pregnant with our second child. Our relationship is great but my boyfriend’s mother is a huge problem and I’m fed up with her inserting herself into every aspect of our lives. She comments on how we parent, our finances, my decorating style, how I cook and my housekeeping skills. Recently, our child was sick and she caused a big scene in the hospital, saying that it was my fault for not taking better care of her grandchild...........