Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m an attractive 45 year old independent woman and I’ve been in a relationship with a 41 year old man for a year. We don’t live together because I’m not ready for all of that and we’ve been arguing a lot lately. He’s a great man and for the first time in a very long time, I’m faithful to one guy. He is great in the bedroom, but his libido doesn’t match mine. I want sex all of the time and he doesn’t...................